Saturday, November 22, 2008

The Dirty Little Secret Places To Pick Up Women

A club or a bar is where most men think their search would end. That's a wrong assumption. Women also get picked up at joints as unusual as a grocery store. Let me tell you a secret. A grocery store for us is one place to bump into men who we know would be single. Most likely only a single man would buy groceries alone. A strong reason why we never visit a grocery shop without ensuring we are looking great.

Another place I am sure most men wouldn't think of is a book shop where you can find single women in dozens especially on the weekends. One would find a good number of young women who have gotten tired of late night outs. Such women if single would be very eligible for a relationship provided you are able to recognize them.

Your office could be another place to look for your future mate. Your approach needs to be different here keeping in mind it's your office and going over board could jeopardize your job. The best way would be to become popular among your female colleagues. Say nice things to them about their work decisions or skills they use in the job. Be very natural in doing so.

For instance, you could ask a female colleague-"Could you give me some points on my client presentation tomorrow? I thought you would be the best source to guide me on that." This way she will understand you are not trying to woo her ad you genuinely need help from someone who is an expert in that area.

She will not only spend the whole night thinking of these points foryour presentation but will also talk nice about you with other female colleagues. Repeat similar tactics of appreciation with a few more women and you would soon become popular enough to choose the right one out of the entire lot. Never commit the blunder of double crossing anyone or you would be labeled a philanderer.

There are ways to identify a single woman. Just talk to her once and she will give you indications about her status. If she is not single, she would find out a way to casually refer to her partner in the conversation. That's a way to tell you- 'Stop right there! I am not available.' If you still persist you would only go out-of-bounds in your approach and get snubbed by her.

However, if you don't hear such a reference while talking with her, you can keep on going ahead in your move unless she gives you a signal to stop for different reasons. If she is already having a man in her life, but doesn't disclose that to you, she has already perhaps sized you up better than her present man and chances are she would give you clearer signs the next time you meet her.

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